I Need Some Space! Do You too?

Lamark once said that the use of organs made them stronger and vice versa. Although it is not a universally true theory but partially it is. It applies to those who have stopped using their minds and are getting directions all the time to do each and everything in their lives from those who consider themselves as if they are God. From birth to death, we have to listen that we have no choice but to do what others want. And these others are social norms, elders' superiority complexes or their wishes. That's why we have to follow their minds and directions but not of us as we are not allowed to think, to do what we want, to read what want to read, to wear what we want to wear, even we cannot choose our carrier line because it will be defined by the fact that the son or daughter of our neighbors or somebody in our family have chosen what, so that, our parents could decide by observing others not using their own minds for their own child.

And that is the reason why most of the students are unsatisfied from their lives. They are in fear all the time that if they would fail, how they will get up again as they don't know how to use their own minds. They don't know how they will take decisions when their directors would not exist anymore.

Its fact that we cannot survive without society, without directions of elders at that moment where we are inexperienced. But excess of everything is bad. So, youth should be given some space to take their own decisions in their lives, let them do some mistakes so that they could learn. They should be given unconditional love with some restraints to grow up and make them able to use their own mind in their lives. Nobody is perfect! Everybody learns from some foolish things in his or her life. So let him/her experience those things which will save him or her from doing big mistakes which will ruin his or her life.

In the presence of directors, mistakes can be ignored and erased but after that price will have to pay if "You" don't know how to use your own mind.

I'm not a LOSER!Ok! Are you?

You are a loser!!! Do you know? Look at yourself.

Oh really? No! I'm not. At least you shouldn't talk to me like that because you know what I have done to achieve my goal. I did everything that I could do but...I think it was my destiny to get failed. And I cannot do this anymore.

Yes! you are right. That's why you are a loser!

Ayan, standing in front of the mirror, was calmly watching himself as a loser. He always wanted to become a great singer but the "only" chance, as he was thinking, of fulfilling his aim was crushed when he failed in the singing competition at the national level. And his mind and heart were infight inside him. His mind was against him but his heart was trying to convince him that it was just "one" chance in life but not the "only" one to be successful.

Ayan was not the "only" one who was feeling like a loser at that moment, but most of us feel the same when life tests them. When we want to climb up to achieve our aim, our dreams,  but life hit us on our hands and through us from the heights where we are very close to get what we want. And then what? We start thinking that bad luck belongs to us and we can't get up and try again. Just only one stroke of life shatters us and, in the future, we never try to fight again and get from life what we deserve. But some people never give up; they fight back with their bad luck and then, life says them, "You were not a loser, I was! I was just testing you whether you deserve this or not! So, You have won. Congrats!"

Although, Ayan Was disappointed at that time but he was one of those who never give up. So, he got what he, once, wanted. Today, everybody loves to listen to his songs!

Now it is up to you either be a loser or winner in your life.
Remember! A winner never gives up! The only loser does! And the "only" one does not exist in this world except God. So, Don't lose heart and give yourself another chance to win.