Love and Obsession

It is said that, in love, each person should not surround completely his or her lover and give some ‘personal space’. True. But, seriously,  I have never got the point of personal space. Why a book lover would not like to be surrounded by the books in his room? If he does not like this, his or her claim of love is absurd!

Struggle: The Door to Happiness

Life will test you!

Life will disappoint you!

Life will make you extremely an unhappy person!

Life will break you!

Life will do everything to make you a loser

BUT!!!

Unceasing struggle!

Unbreakable will!

Unparalleled hard work!

Hope in the darkness!

Commitment to your dreams!

Nothing but all these will turn you into a winner!

So, DON’T ever give up on your dreams because pain is temporary, and greatness is forever. Go grab them, buddy!

 

Perfection

 

Image: Ibn-e-Adam

Perfection. This word has very much attraction to everyone in this world. Yes! I said to everyone! Do you think I am exaggerating this fact? Yes! you could think this way when you don’t know what the meaning of this word is! What it costs to complete its meaning. It takes a whole life to understand the meaning of this word. That is why, I think, only some people with beautiful, caring, and loving heart and patience in their mind and soul can only touch the true spirit of this word and make their lives perfect. 

As Perfection comes with innumerable hardships, worries, anxieties, and depression so the majority of the people take only shallow meanings of this word. But it takes decades, most of the time, to find the true meaning of perfection. One might think that having a girl with a stunning figure and physic, beautiful and expensive house at a glaring beech along with some costly Mercedes, healthy and good food, and dresses from the renowned boutique make a person’s life perfect. But it not true, for most of the people who know the depth of life. 

Perfection is when you dive into the ebbs of life and have someone with whom you touch the sky again; perfection is when you want to wait for some loved one whole night, and you think that you can wait for that person even for a whole life without uttering a single word of protest; perfection is when you start counting a single second in her absence and forget to eat in her presence; perfection is when she screams at you with anger and pain and you try to understand her and give her a tight hug and do not leave her alone to suffer; perfection is when you try to understand her at some point of life when the world is not ready to even look at her; perfection is when you know that she is not perfect, but you could not live a single moment without her; perfection is when you walk with her when she loses something precious in her life; perfection is when you think that you are nothing without her. To sum it up in just a line, perfection is when you start recognizing the depth, longing, and pain of others!!!

-Ibn e Adam

 

 

Move On

                                                                                        G.I

                                                                              

Are you still waiting for the days to see them again? No man! Let them go now!

The moments of utmost happiness, the feelings of forever closeness attached to someone important to you, the memories of care of a person for you which make you smile even in his or her absence, these all are the parts of almost everyone’s life. Most of us can’t feel the importance of having someone who fills his or her sad moments with joy until the distance parted them away. Afterward, both crave to be close to each other again to feel those happy moments but to no avail.

Once the days are gone, it never happens again to see them which make our memories, which make us smile while crying in the midnight. Recalling those memories help us to fight in life to move forward. Those memories support us to live up again. One can go a long way in one’s life while achieving one’s aim if he conquers his heart ranching memories and does not let them overwhelm and stop him to move on.

Remember, stops are meant to prepare for the next journey but not to stay there, forever. So, don’t let anything to stop you from achieving your desired goals of life.

Now what?

G.I

“I will have to go now, we are not together anymore”, call gets off and the sound of beep..beep revolves around and in the head of Harry. This was the last sentence of Julia, the dream girl of Harry. In the next two hours, she would be the legal wife of any other person. And that's all.

Harry was out of mind since the call ended. Those all-night chats, candlelight dates, and dinners, promises of living and enjoying each other’s company together became a dream in a second. Streams of questions were smashing the head of Henry.

‘Why???’, Henry asked himself when he felt consciousness again aftershock.

What is going to happen next in my life? Why did she do that with me? She knew that I couldn't live without her even a second. Then why? Many more questions were about to spur in the mind but due to the uncontrollability of his thoughts, he was unable to understand what is happening to him at that moment and what to do with that situation. He was completely out of mind because he never thought of such a sudden and painful ending of his love story.

This is not the story of Henry only in this world, but the story of every boy or girl who listens to his/her heart and steps in the field of love. But what is ‘love’? Everyone has different explanations for this. But how to tackle the situation of a broken heart, very few people can handle this question positively. And the explanation of this question matters the most, in my point of view.

Before jumping to answer this question, I would like to highlight some common behavior of people after facing such a sad ending of their love stories.

1.      Once You Failed, Never Stand up again!

Such people consider that their wish to attach with any other person would impure the love they once had for his’ dream girl’. And this attitude, sometimes, ruins their even married life as they never give themselves another chance to find someone to give way their emotions.

2.      Once be Left, Never be Together always

These types of people start thinking that they can neither get a person whom they love so much, nor they can stay with them as much as they want. So, they stop caring about the person, if, anyone tries to attach with them for a lifetime.

3.      Once be Cheated, Never Trust in any other Person

Such people, shattered emotionally, think of being cheated by the dream girl and stop trusting in people again to avoid the pain of getting left. These people also cannot maintain a healthy relationship with any other person until they change their behavior.

But there exist a very few persons who know the real meaning of love and how to handle the sad ending of their love stories. Those people think positively. They know that love does not mean that do not understand the interrelationship affairs very well and not trusting each other. They know that love means to care about each other in whatever the situation both they are, to live without each other if staying together makes other loved ones sad. It's better to harm the emotions of two persons rather than making the life of friends and family a hell. They know that love means to compromise when the farness of two persons can fill the hearts of the whole family with happiness. They understand to respect in every situation of life. They know to live a better life to prove that love is the name of courage not of cowardness to end his life.

'Now what' is your answer to this question?

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G.I

              ہر انسان کی زندگی میں ایک ایسا وقت ضرور آتا ہے کہ وہ کسی ایک چیز کو اپنی مکمل زندگی کا مقصد سمجھ کے اس پر رک جانا چاہتا ہے۔ یہ 'ایک چیز' اس انسان کے لیے کسی دوسرے انسان کو حاصل کر لینا یا زندگی میں اچھا اور من پسند لآئف سٹائل حاصل ہو جا نا یا کچھ بھی ہو سکتا ہے۔ لیکن اکثر اوقات جو ہم چا ہتے ہیں وہ لا حاصل ہی رہ جاتا ہے۔ اس لا حاصل کے بعد جو رویہ انسان اپناتا ہے وہ اس انسان کی آنےوالی زندگی میں کامیابی یا ناکامی کا تعین کرتا ہے ۔اور میں نے ہمیشہ اس لا حاصل پر ماتم کرنے کی بجائے ایک اور نئ منذل کو متعین کر کے پھر سے خود کو موقع دینے والوں کو سب سے زیادہ کامیاب دیکھا ہے۔ کیونکہ زندگی ہے ہی آگے  بڑ ھنے کا نام جسے انگریزی میں کہتے ہیں "Move on"۔اس لیے آپ بھی آگے بڑھئے کیونکہ آپ کےلیے نا تو موقع رکے گا اور نا ہی کوئ انسان! تو زرا سوچئے گا کہ آپ ابھی تک کیوں رکے ہوے ہیں؟؟؟

I Need Some Space! Do You too?

Lamark once said that the use of organs made them stronger and vice versa. Although it is not a universally true theory but partially it is. It applies to those who have stopped using their minds and are getting directions all the time to do each and everything in their lives from those who consider themselves as if they are God. From birth to death, we have to listen that we have no choice but to do what others want. And these others are social norms, elders' superiority complexes or their wishes. That's why we have to follow their minds and directions but not of us as we are not allowed to think, to do what we want, to read what want to read, to wear what we want to wear, even we cannot choose our carrier line because it will be defined by the fact that the son or daughter of our neighbors or somebody in our family have chosen what, so that, our parents could decide by observing others not using their own minds for their own child.

And that is the reason why most of the students are unsatisfied from their lives. They are in fear all the time that if they would fail, how they will get up again as they don't know how to use their own minds. They don't know how they will take decisions when their directors would not exist anymore.

Its fact that we cannot survive without society, without directions of elders at that moment where we are inexperienced. But excess of everything is bad. So, youth should be given some space to take their own decisions in their lives, let them do some mistakes so that they could learn. They should be given unconditional love with some restraints to grow up and make them able to use their own mind in their lives. Nobody is perfect! Everybody learns from some foolish things in his or her life. So let him/her experience those things which will save him or her from doing big mistakes which will ruin his or her life.

In the presence of directors, mistakes can be ignored and erased but after that price will have to pay if "You" don't know how to use your own mind.