“I will have to go now, we are not together
anymore”, call gets off and the sound of beep..beep revolves around and in the
head of Harry. This was the last sentence of Julia, the dream girl of Harry. In
the next two hours, she would be the legal wife of any other person. And that's
all.
Harry was out of mind
since the call ended. Those all-night chats, candlelight dates, and dinners, promises
of living and enjoying each other’s company together became a dream in a
second. Streams of questions were smashing the head of Henry.
‘Why???’, Henry asked himself when he felt
consciousness again aftershock.
What is going to happen next in my life? Why did
she do that with me? She knew that I couldn't live without her even a second.
Then why? Many more questions were about to spur in the mind but due to the
uncontrollability of his thoughts, he was unable to understand what is
happening to him at that moment and what to do with that situation. He was
completely out of mind because he never thought of such a sudden and painful
ending of his love story.
This is not the story of Henry only in this
world, but the story of every boy or girl who listens to his/her heart and
steps in the field of love. But what is ‘love’? Everyone has different
explanations for this. But how to tackle the situation of a broken heart, very
few people can handle this question positively. And the explanation of this
question matters the most, in my point of view.
Before jumping to answer this question, I would
like to highlight some common behavior of people after facing such a sad ending
of their love stories.
1.
Once
You Failed, Never Stand up again!
Such people consider that their wish to attach
with any other person would impure the love they once had for his’ dream girl’.
And this attitude, sometimes, ruins their even married life as they never give
themselves another chance to find someone to give way their emotions.
2.
Once be Left, Never be Together always
These types of people start thinking that they
can neither get a person whom they love so much, nor they can stay with them as
much as they want. So, they stop caring about the person, if, anyone tries to
attach with them for a lifetime.
3.
Once be Cheated, Never Trust in any other Person
Such people, shattered emotionally, think of
being cheated by the dream girl and stop trusting in people again to avoid the pain of getting left. These people also cannot maintain a healthy relationship
with any other person until they change their behavior.
But there exist a very few persons who know the real meaning of love and how to handle the sad ending of their love stories.
Those people think positively. They know that love does not mean that do not
understand the interrelationship affairs very well and not trusting each other.
They know that love means to care about each other in whatever the situation
both they are, to live without each other if staying together makes other loved
ones sad. It's better to harm the emotions of two persons rather than making
the life of friends and family a hell. They know that love means to compromise
when the farness of two persons can fill the hearts of the whole family with
happiness. They understand to respect in every situation of life. They know to
live a better life to prove that love is the name of courage not of cowardness
to end his life.
'Now what' is your answer to this question?
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